What should I do if a child with autism doesn't allow physical touch?

Autistic children who resist physical touch can improve through methods such as respecting the child's personal space, gradual physical contact, and building a reliable, trusting relationship. A detailed analysis is as follows:

1. Respect the Child's Personal Space

Respecting the child's personal space is crucial. When a child expresses unwillingness to be touched, avoid forcing physical contact. Instead, try establishing other forms of communication and interaction, such as eye contact, verbal communication, or play.

2. Gradual Contact

Some children may gradually become accustomed to physical touch over time. Begin by touching objects the child likes, then slowly progress to lightly touching the child’s arm or shoulder. Gradually increase the frequency and intensity of physical contact to help the child adapt.

3. Build a Reliable, Trusting Relationship

Children with autism often require more time to develop trust. It is recommended to establish a stable relationship based on mutual trust and understanding, making every effort to ensure the child feels safe and comfortable.

In addition to the above methods, trying different forms of physical contact and seeking professional support may also be beneficial if difficulties persist. Parents should strive to understand their child's feelings and needs to help them adapt to physical touch and promote emotional connection, while enhancing interaction and communication to build a more stable relationship.